Blooz, Booze, and Sexy Time

Lotta that going on in Adela land! So here was my weekend, in a nutshell: 1 Brave Combo concert, 2 gigs, 3 hot and heavy dates with 2 men, and 1 patrol shift. Adds up to lotsa good God almighty times!

I guess I have officially become a player. At the gig on Friday was my 48yo boyfriend, S.G., or as I call him "Stefano". He got to meet lots of my friends and my li'l bro, as li'l bro and I arrived at the gig fresh from The Dosey Doe in The Woodlands where we went to spend a little time with Brave Combo and our mother since it was her birthday weekend. Earlier that day my little boyfriend, the 24yo, D.A., had driven all the way near my Job #1 to meet me for lunch as he was dying to see me, the poor lad! So I had him meet me at La Mad and while there I bought my mom a small tart as she loves that shit. D.A. has grown a cute little goatee per my request as I think it makes him look a little older and it makes him look like the writer that he is. I do think he's adorable, and told me on Friday that he is starting to fall for me--his words.

I wasn't sure how to act around Stefano at my gig but he was very attentive and clearly wanted me to be aware he was there for me, so that helped gauge my attention and interest. To be honest I was nervous due to 2 of my most incredible bass playing friends there, including Rozzy and my other dear friend, Q. And Stefano sat right up front to watch us play which also made me nervous. I played mostly ok except I did make a couple obvious mistakes. But I think everyone knew I was nervous, and afterwards got lots of compliments, as always, but men are never 100% honest with me so that's to be expected. Even my ex, M. was there and I actually DID call him on the way home from the gig b/c I was confident he would be mostly truthful with me since he has no agenda with me and never will again! He did in fact tell me lots of nice things about my playing. I had so many people there to see me, it was awesome! L. came and brought her new man, also R. and T. However my dad didn't show and I had even put him on the door... damn him.

I met Stefano at my place so he could help me unload my amp and we had a drink of the scotch that D.A. had brought over, but I didn't want to hang out at my place b/c the bed was unmade, the house was a little untidy, and there were D.A.'s condoms all over the place! So we went to Stefano's house which is literally a 90-second drive away, and commenced with getting to know one another much better. He really is very sexy and cute and gentlemanly and apparently really really really likes me.

Of course he had to drive me back home at a somewhat decent hour the next morning b/c I had to go on patrol by 1400 hrs. Patrol was mostly uneventful except the Sgt. paired me with an FTO who I'd never ridden with before and he was very funny and we had a good time yukking it up all day. But it was drizzly and cold which meant the turds stayed indoors to smoke their crack. I got off around 2130 and went home to change and go to Stefano's house. We listened to music, drank wine, I smoked a cigar, and then yadda yadda yadda. The next morning he got up early to listen to our local blues radio programs and read the NY Times--what a nice change of pace to be dating a cultured, informed, intelligent man for once! I stayed in bed to sleep some more, but he came and very affectionately woke me later. He took me to breakfast at a very cool, very delicious local bagel shop and I am starting to feel more relaxed around him though to be honest I am still pretty shy around both my guys, not sure why. Back at his place he even gave me the Times and his Esquire magazine to take home with me--love it!!!

When I got home I told D.A. to meet me at my place so we could go to my 4pm gig at some biker place together. He came over and I immediately put him to work as my roadie, heh heh. The biker gig was outside in the cold which I was afraid of, but Leo had given me no specifics. There were several musician friends I saw there. This was D.A.'s 1st time to see me play, and he said we did great. I kinda wanted to hang out after we played to see my other friends' bands play but it was cold, I was tired, and I wanted to go home and cuddle, which is what we did. Also I'd had 2 beers at the gig b/c that's all there was to drink there and back home we shared some nachos and I drank some passion fruit rum, delish! D.A. later made himself a whiskey and coke before yadda yadda yadda. (Which I have only done one time before--sexy time with 2 guys in the same day!). The subject of Stefano came up and I told D.A. that Stefano has nothing to do with D.A. or how I feel about him, which is so true. D.A. told me he's been telling his dad how much he cares about me and that his dad said we should all do dinner someday, and I am totally fine with that!

So tonight is the annual holiday party for the High-spanic Health Coalition and I invited D.A. to come with me. We'll hang out tonight and then on Weds. we'll go see our friend play a gig. I'll have Tues. and Thurs. to myself since those are rehearsal nights, and Thurs. my band mates want to go out drinking again, which we did last Thurs. and I got so incredibly wasted but it was way fun. Friday and Saturday is when D.A. has his waiter job so I am hoping Stefano wants to hang out again on Friday (I'll be in Dallas on Saturday). Stefano gets up very early during the week so he can go to the gym and work early so workweek hanging with him is probably not realistic due to my crazy ass schedule. Thus, so far it seems this scheduling time with my menfolk thing will work out since they both have different schedules and hopefully there won't be too many conflicts where I'll have to choose between them!