I made it. It was a bumpy ride this week, but I finally made it to Friday. Tonight Mr. Wonderful Stefano is going to totally pamper me. He informed me that earlier today he went and bought Riesling, coconut rum, hummus, veggies, and tonight he'll give me a bubble bath and a massage. He is The. BEST!!!!!!!!!!!
Last night's gig went well. I showed up in a pissed off, nasty ass, dark fucked-up mood however. That's b/c the meeting yesterday morning w/my Atty. and S--who brought his lying fat-ass bleached blonde MOMMY with him, just like I KNEW he would--did not go well. Fortunately I did not have to see them, as my atty. stashed them in the conference room and went back and forth between rooms trying to negotiate. S and his mother said some incredible, fantastic, amazing lies about me. Truly I could not believe it, after what S and I went through w/the whore and her contingency doing that to us for 2 years. It was like a blow to hear S now applying those same, low-blow, gangster tactics. I feel such shock and anger. I am amazed and appalled. The last thing he told my atty. was that he was going to level some vague adultery charges against me!!! I honestly have nothing to say to that b/c that is the absolute HEIGHT of ridiculousness, and I told my atty. that S is welcome to go home and try to make up whatever he wants to try and make up. It's akin to accusing me of, I don't know, being a Martian, or stockpiling dead bodies in my house or something. Go ahead, prove it, be my guest. Have fun! (And yes, my atty. confirms that anything [or anyone--ha!] I did after S and I were legally separated is NOT adultery.)
But it's amazing how fucking stupid S and his shithole mom are as well. Another good lie from them came when I told my atty. that S needs to pay back 1/2 the loan my mom gave us to pay our taxes back in '09. When he came back from speaking with them he said that S and his mom are now claiming that S's mom lent "us" the money to buy a Nissan, the one that S crashed in summer 2005 b/c he's a fucking idiot and was attempting to take a left turn across 6 lanes of busy traffic. My atty. asked me did we own a Nissan. Yes I said--however, that Nissan was S's car when I met him. In other words, a PRE-MARITAL ASSET that has NOTHING to do with NOTHING. Ridiculous! Retarded! STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am almost laughing out loud at this if it weren't so pathetic and such a waste of everyone's time.
So we finished this bullshit waste of time after 2 hours and S and his mom said they had to go and that S would be hiring his own lawyer--as if that's supposed to scare me or something. Quite the contrary! It would be a good thing for several reasons. My atty. says that it will make his job easier b/c now he will be able to communicate w/S's lawyer, someone w/some brain cells as opposed to his trying to communicate w/S. Also my atty. said if S gets an atty. then the atty. will try and talk some sense into his client into settling w/me. And my position is that I will be glad for S to hire an atty. and feel my pain of writing checks for legal fees! Welcome to my world, asshole!!! (I should say, his MOMMY would be writing checks for legal fees, since S is still not working and she's having to pay his child support and house and feed him and his daughter on top of everything else.)
I guess a couple of good things came from the meeting though--I discovered S's kryptonite. He very badly wants some things from me, namely: he REALLY wants me to revert back to my maiden name. He also wants his daughter's remaining possessions that are in my house (which actually are not that much, just a couple of items of clothes and some toys/books, etc.). And he wants the 2 boxes of custody battle documents/evidence. He wants the titles to our 2 cars, the Ford and the 3000GT. Finally he wants his law enforcement materials, such as his books, notebooks, etc. I told my atty. he can have everything he wants. AFTER I get what I need, which is the $ he owes me for the custody battle debt and for him to sign a quit claim deed for MY house.
When I left the meeting I was livid and homicidal. I immediately called S's baby mama and told her that S refused to cooperate w/me and that she can have all the photos I have of their daughter. S no longer deserves for me to be benevolent and give them to him when this is all over. He was wrong to fuck with me. I also called our trash porters and found out that I can put heavy trash out with regular trash on any day except Mondays. So I will be dragging S's father's recliner out there once and for all and getting it out of MY house. Then this morning I began throwing away the rest of S's papers, belongings, etc. that I was being nice enough to hold onto for him. FUCK THAT. Finally I will be either selling or donating the nicer of S's clothes and shoes. They will either bring me some $ or a huge fat tax deduction. He no longer gets to have them back after pulling that bullshit he and his mommy tried to pull yesterday. OH, IT'S ON NOW.
I tried to not be in a black mood last night but I couldn't help it, and figured I deserved one night to be pissed off and feel whatever I need to feel for now. The gig really was fun though, and they had a free soul food buffet laid out and also I got to drink for free. I had 2 Long Island Teas and I was in such a funk that I ate 2 plates of the soul food and chowed down on a bunch of popcorn as well. I was just in one of those moods, man. Li'l bro came to the gig and cheered me up though, and Leo and George cheered me up too. The crowd loved us and we played well. Fortunately it was a short gig and I was home before 10pm. I was kinda tipsy and I passed out on the couch and couldn't get into work today 'til 10am. For lunch today me and my coworkers went to the taco place next to the Continental Club, and I grubbed seriously on black bean chicken nachos w/guacamole.
Tomorrow morning the deadly Sgt. S is holding Krav Maga class but I simply do not have the energy to go and do that, esp. after just getting over being sick. I have to go patrol tomorrow afternoon anyway. Sunday promises to be a glorious fun day though, as Stefano and I have plans to go see a matinee of the new movie The Runaways, then go to Discovery Green park to see a band, and then I myself have a gig from 5-7p, which'll be fun.
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