No resolution... for now.

So court this a.m. was a big waste of time. We were there for 3 hours with nothing really being resolved. The amicus attorney said he was sick of all this fighting and recommended we both drop our contempt charges against each other--now, mind you, OURS are factual and the whore's are complete fiction. However, we agreed to do so, so we'd look good for the amicus, and the amicus said we would get a makeup weekend for the one the whore made us miss. Our lawyer still tried to ask the judge if she argued and presented our witness and showed evidence would he put the whore in jail, and he said probably not. So we decided to do what the amicus recommended and not waste any more time today.

The amicus said that he wants us to do what's best for the baby and quit fighting with each other since we're going to have to be parenting together for the next 12 years. He also told the whore that she better stop all these allegations against us unless she has some real evidence, and he demanded to see it; if she has none, she better knock it off. And he is going to take into consideration for his custody recommendation all her B.S. if it turns out she has no evidence after all--which she doesn't!!!

Our lawyer is still going to file a motion for us to get primary custody immediately until we go to trial b/c of the recommendation from the county lady that we get primary custody. She said with that and with the whore's repeated visitation violations, and her malicious attempts to delay litigation, and the baby's dental deterioration, we should get it. Because unfortunately, the first available jury trial date is not until October. But our lawyer says we should be able to get a hearing on switching custody within 30 days. I hope she's right. When we do, I believe that we will get custody and that will just set the stage for the jury trial come October. The jury trial will just be a formality by that point!

So poor M. came down there for nothing, but that's ok b/c the whore had that lying old bag with her and another friend of hers who was going to testify to... what, exactly? More lies. And here's the proof: M. got to court before we did, and he was sitting right near the whore and her 2 hooker friends. They did not know who he was, and he overheard them all trying to get their lies and stories straight!!! He said they were trying to corroborate their lies so they'd have the same story to tell. The whore's capacity for stupidity is endless. I called our lawyer on her cell and told her, and I also told the amicus when we ran into him at the metal detector. So it's a good thing they agreed to drop their B.S. contempt charge as well, b/c our lawyer was going to ask M. to testify about what he overheard!!!

So we all left about noon and I took S out for sushi and ice cream--we needed it. Then we went home and relaxed until I had to head out to Job #2, which is where I sit now. I'm drained. I had to take a valium last night which I never do--I hate depending on pharmaceuticals. But my fight is still in me, although I'm going to give it a break until we get the next hearing scheduled for us to get primary custody. The mind and body are just not meant to have constant adrenaline dumps. L. is worried that all this is going to make me look older before my time and I'm inclined to agree that is something to consider.

Happier blog posts to come starting tomorrow.